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Unrequited Stupidity 

Below is a perfect example of the Not a Princess and her lies posted all over the internet. She posted this, for everyone to read, about an innocent man who never did a thing to her. I have redacted this doxing victim's name.

This woman should never have had access to the internet. Full Stop! She not only lied to these people on this post about being married to the grandson of Prince Kuhio, which she is not, and she knew she was not at the time, but she talked about an old crush she had, and actually NAMED the boy, who is now a man. She named him! And if you read it, you'll clearly see that she named him vindictively. "Take that R**** *******!" The hatred, bile and vindictiveness of that one line says it all!

Yes, I know she sounds a bit Pedo, as she said she was in love with a boy "a year old" but let's take it for granted we are witnessing the writings of a functionally illiterate moron. No doubt she meant older, not old...but I digress.

She posted hate against this boy, now man, who was married and had a good job, and had children, and had a wonderful life, and she named him. And since she included her age, and mentioned Prince Kuhio, anybody can focus in on his name, plus the fact that this was in the '70s and the fact that it was in Hawaii. So with a little deduction, people can pinpoint who this man is, and Not a Princess is okay with that. 

Just like what she did to me. Saying that I distanced myself from the family because I was deep in a drug addiction. I've never had a drug addiction in my life. I never deserved her posting my information, my name, yes...doxing me, on the internet. 

She wanted to get back at this BOY, who, by the way, whether he liked her or not, was very nice to her and behaved as a well brought up teenage boy would. He treated her with respect and kindness, but he made the grave mistake of not falling in love with her overweight body, acne covered face, unkempt hair and chronic bad attitude. So she decided to make the MAN pay for some imagined slight done by a young boy, to Not a Princess 50 years ago!

Despicable! What gave you the right to post such a thing? Nothing. Nothing but your overblown ego and you psychopathic entitlement.

This gentleman has since passed away, and I pray he didn't see the post by a vindictive, hateful, entitled, uneducated welfare queen before he passed away! And don't you dare try to contact his family! Leave those poor people alone! If you contact them, I will give them everything they need to sue you into oblivion.

Cut the "Kingdom of Hawaii" Bullsh*t!!

You, along with your family, have leeched off the benefits of the US Government, meaning the US Taxpayer (Me!) your whole adult Life! 

You have posted all over FB and the internet how the US Treaties, Hawaiian Statehood, etc., are illegal because it's the Kingdom of Hawaii. 

It's easy to be a keyboard warrior while sitting in you home, safe from any intellectual and factual challenges, while continuing to rake in the Welfare Benefits from the US Government and posting Kingdom of Hawaii BS on the internet.

You obviously don't have the courage of your convictions! 

You, and Not a Prince, have suckled on the teat of the US Government for decades. While you disparage the United States of America, your hand is out, begging for handouts from said Country. I noticed that on all the “Kingdom of Hawaii” comments you post, where you vilify the United States of America, you never once mention how you and your able-bodied husband have sucking off the teat of the US Government Welfare system for decades. I noticed when you posted a DEMAND for more money/cash from the US President, you didn’t mention the $2,176,000 that you and your family have sucked off the US Taxpayer since 1980. You just DEMANDED MORE! That astronomical amount doesn’t even include the amount for the Free Health Care you all received over the decades. The American Taxpayers who fund your life do not get Free Health Care, but YOU DO. There is something fundamentally wrong with that.

The fact is, you didn’t marry a man who EVER intended to financially support his wife and children himself. 

So, you should be damn grateful that the United States of America, the American Taxpayer (me!) stepped in to support this able-bodied man's family. Had it been left up to you and your husband to go out, get jobs, become productive members of society and earn a living to feed your children, your children would have starved. This Government you vilify all over the internet on a daily basis, SAVED YOUR CHILDREN’S LIVES, and you are not even a little grateful. What you are is entitled, spoiled and lazy. You, my dear, are a hypocrite. 

The fact is, Government assistance is NOT your income. It is a handout. YOU never earned it. Your husband never earned it. The US taxpayer earned it as part of their income, while working for a living, the money was involuntarily taken from them and handed to a very ungrateful, entitled, lazy and spoiled YOU. And you are so ungrateful that you disparage the Country and the people who worked hard for the money you have a grasping hand out for. 

Knock off the “Kingdom of Hawaii” crap. Hawaii doesn’t need a narcissistic hypocrite championing them.

If you truly believe it's the "Kingdom of Hawaii" and an injustice was done, why don't you pay back every penny you've leeched off US Taxpayer s for DECADES?!

Why don't you pay back every pennies worth of food stamps you and your family have collected every month for DECADES?!

Why don't you pay back all the medical bills the US Government (taxpayers) paid for you and your family over the DECADES?!

Why don't you pay market value 'back-rent' to the US Government on every one of the free welfare housing units you all lived in over the DECADES?! Less the time periods during which you were evicted, of course.

You can do it! The government won't turn down money!

Then, as you consider it to be the Kingdom of Hawaii, you could go get a job trying to overthrow what you call an "illegal government," and you could work to raise the "Kingdom of Hawaii" to POWER!

Here's some suggestions for you...

Grab a picket-sign and start matching.

Do deep research, educate yourself, and speak before Politicians and try to get the US Government ousted from power.

Find like-minded, high-value people and groups that would be willing to hire you, and give you a paycheck, because they feel they would benefit from your passion to overthrow the US Government.

Instead of constantly spouting unwanted BS on FB and the internet, work to uplift the Kingdom of Hawaii to the Heights and Power you feel is its due!

Otherwise, get off the soap box you don't have the right to be on. Hypocrisy is neither attractive, nor impressive. Stop the hypocrisy. It should embarrass and shame you. 

She's 'da BOMB!!!

Over the years I have mailed packages to Not a Princess and her family. In hindsight, I wish I hadn't. We certainly have enough cousins on each side for me to send things to, so that is what I have started doing. Many years ago, I was awarded with the story of one of her victim manipulations she used on her family, and I was the cudgel she used to do it. I shall regale you with tale below....

With one of the many packages of pictures and family heirlooms that I mailed to Not a Princess, she didn't accept it with grace and appreciation. Instead, she pulled out her victim card, and vigorously waived it around like a winning lottery ticket. 

Did she gather her loved ones around the table, and excite the family about what treasures I may have so generously sent to them?

No. She told the family that she was sure I had mailed her a BOMB! Yes....a Bomb! (Rolling my eyes)

Well, I have been accused of many things in my life but never have I been awarded the moniker of a Mail Bomber/Domestic Terrorist. Be assured, I have never sent anyone a bomb via the USPS, FedEx, door-dash nor flying Drone in my life. Not a Princess came up with the bomb scenario in order to manipulate people in her family, stir up drama, and play the victim card. She knew damn well there was no bomb in to box.  

But she needed the drama. She wanted her family, who barely knew me to feel sorry for Not a Princess, to manipulate her family into believing I am the type of person who would send bombs in the mail, rather than sending family heirlooms. 

When Not a Princess received our father's burial flag in the mail, it was clearly return addressed from me. Did she take a marker and write on the box "Return to Sender" and hand it back to the mailman? No. She kept it.

When she received the second box from me, did she write "Return to Sender" on it and hand it back to the mailman?" No. She kept it.

Had I previously sent Not a Princess a bomb in the mail? No.

Had I ever sent her anything dangerous or life threatening in the mail? No.

Had I ever sent her anything ugly or inappropriate through the mail? No.

I ask you this dear reader...

When she received the box that she "feared" had a bomb in it:

Did she return it to sender? No.

Did she dial 911 for the bomb squad to protect her family, pets and the community? No.

Did she worry so much that there was a bomb in there that she gingerly carried the box outside, to keep it away for her cherished daughters, husband and pets? No.

Did she grab everyone in her apartment, including the pets, and get them all outside, away from what she was claiming was a bomb, to safety? No.

Did she start yelling to the unsuspecting neighbors that there is a possible bomb in the building and for them to evacuate before it exploded? No.

She did none of the above. She knew, 100%, that there wasn't a bomb in the box, but she wanted to manipulate, act the fool, the moron, the manipulator. 

She didn't want her family to think that I was thinking sentimentally of them and sending her family heirlooms and items I cherished with all my heart. Instead, she put on a show. Nothing more than a show to manipulate her family, exercise her victim narrative, and to put her family in mortal fear.

The lasts thing she wanted was for her family to have any positive thoughts about me. She wouldn't want any of her children to be happy that they received family heirlooms. She had to be the center of attention. Her main character syndrome was screaming for attention. She wanted to put FEAR into her children. She had to make sure the were terrified of mail bombs, and a generous, innocent Aunt. THAT was not the behavior of a good mother. It would be best for Not a Princess if people stopped feeling sorry for her and started seeing her for the narcissistic, conniving manipulator that she is. When people fall for her manipulations and Bullshit, it recharges her "Victim Card" and she is delighted. 

Now, because of her lies, I am viewed as a drug addict, bomb terrorist. Doesn't she make the perfect sister? Isn't she a wonderful roll model for her daughters? No....that is sarcasm. When it comes to sisters, she is rotten to the core.

SHE WANTS TO BE A VICTIM SO BAD!!!!

1) You should NEVER have lied to your children about your life or achievements!!!!

2) Stupidly, I tried to extend you an olive branch but you doubled down on your lies and bullshit. You didn't have enough intelligence and maturity to know when you got away with things, but that it wouldn't last forever. You can only push people so far before they fight back. And you know me well enough to know at some point I would put an end to your bullshit. 

3) You have a daughter who lives on the mainland now. You and your husband need to save enough money in an emergency account to buy her a plane ticket home, in case she needs your help at some point. Just like your Mom and Dad did for YOU when you needed to come home after you were expelled from Army Boot Camp. You have other daughters who someday might need your financial help as well. You can't claim poor. You received HUGE tax returns every year, larger than I ever received. Did you save it, or spend it?  You never had to support yourself. You've lived off the American Taxpayer all your life. Did you save any of that free money? No. You ate fast food all the time... while telling people how poor and oppressed you are.

You can afford a monthly subscription to Ancestry..com. You can afford a monthly subscription to 23and.Me. You can afford separate DNA research on both of the above genealogy platforms. You can afford to pay for the internet every month. You can afford to buy fast food numerous times a week. You can afford an unnecessary storage unit to keep your  non-essentials housed in. You get a tax refund every year, unearned for the most part, and you should put that away for an emergency situation that could be on the horizon. Plus much, much more.  

You have posted on many FB pages…”A son is a son until he takes him a wife…A daughter is a daughter all of her life.” Guess what? A mom is a mom all her life, as well. Take my advice. Tighten your belts and put the money in savings. You will be glad you have the money if your daughter's need it, and you will be glad you have the money if your daughters never need it. A "Win-Win" situation for you.

4) When you posted lies about me, did you ever think maybe you shouldn't do it? Did you ever think that ...hmmmm.... maybe if I lie about her, she might tell the truth about me? No. You thought you could play the victim and get away with your bullshit. That didn't work, did it? You thought the lies would prevail. You never thought you daughters would find out about your lies. Well, they have. It's called consequences, my dear. You should have behaved yourself and not lied about me. When I tried to contact you last year you should have contacted me and apologized for your lies. Why didn't you do that?  You, of all people, should know not to get on my bad side. Same with Dino. I bring receipts. 

I would strongly suggest you do not post anything ever again about me on the internet. Or anywhere else for that matter. 

You should know that I have taken screenshots of all the lies you've posted about me. Those screenshots include your Facebook name, which includes your real name. I also have your IP address. Enough proof that you and your family were all included in the online attacks upon my character.

If there is one more word about me, or a HINT about me on the internet, or BS lies leaving your mouth, from you, your husband or your children, you will be hearing from my lawyer. 

I put up with your posting crap about me for 16 years and I'm done. I have 100% proof that you were posting about me. You didn't hide it. You couldn't hide it anyway. I have a job in the legal and investigative field, and in my job I deal with law enforcement, and I won't hesitate to use my connections. 

If I see one word about me, or one HINT about me, on the internet or anywhere else, I will file charges and you and your daughter will be served with lawsuits.

If you think "Let her sue me, I'm poor," but tax refunds aren't safe from garnishing.... Your adult children, their husbands, and significant others, will be included in my lawsuit. After I win the lawsuit, I will garnish paychecks, tax refunds and checking/savings accounts. I will also put liens on vehicles and property. I don't play games. I play hard ball. I suggest you don't challenge my resolve in this. I suggest you backtrack. I suggest you get off social media forever because you are not mature enough to handle the responsibility of it.

You and your daughter have a lawsuit on the horizon. I don't know if you've noticed all the people that are losing their jobs for posting hate on the internet about other people. But it's happening. And I'm done. I've got the proof that you and your daughter have done that about me. The fact remains the internet is forever. And you've been posting lies about me for way too long. I turned the other cheek, and I shouldn't have. 

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FACT: Some people should not be allowed access to the internet.

Did you get a thrill when you posted on everyone's pages that I didn't have anything to do with the family because I was "Deep" in a drug addiction? You posted that on the pages of people you didn't even know, had never met, had never spoken to and whom you would never meet. The only saving grace was the fact that you post everything using the absolute imbecilic name of HRH Princess "Not a Princess." By doing that you make yourself look like a r*tard!!!!!! A 65 year old woman pretending she's a princess! How creepy is that? That is NOT NORMAL. Hmmmm...I wonder...Do you wear a princess gown, tiara, ride around in  Royal Coach +4 and employ a full contingent of liveried servants?

When people see your fake and stolen royal moniker they are not impressed. They are concerned. Not for you. For themselves. Because some crazy woman who is not a princess, is contacting them, and introducing herself as a princess. That is what crazy people do. That is what makes normal people frightened. By calling yourself a princess when you know you're not a princess, and continuing on Facebook posts to claim to be the wife of the Prince of Hawaii, it makes normal people think you are an imbecile, a totally unhinged drama queen, and an idiot!!!!! And it makes them think twice about ever having you around their children.

There is no doubt that you were absolutely cognizant of the fact that those people knew me, and were probably in contact with me on a regular basis. You didn't care if your lies caused me to lose my job, or lose my house, or lose family and friends. You didn't care that maybe I might see your post while I was sick at home, suffering from a life threatening case of Covid. You didn't care that maybe I had just had to watch a cherished elderly cat of mine die in my arms. You didn't care that maybe I was suffering from devastating health issues, and the last thing I should have had to deal with was lies spread about me all over the Internet. Lies concocted by a sister who should have been a better sister than that. A sister who has owed me a lot over the years, financially, emotionally, physically, personally, in a plethora of other different ways. A sister that I protected over decades. I was always a sister that you knew was always trustworthy and who you always turned to for help. A sister you owe a lot to, and who has never sent you a bill, metaphorically or literally. You didn't care how your lies would affect my life, did you? No. You just wanted the dopamine rush that most liars and con artists receive when they're lying, conning and manipulating.

Your jealousy got the better of you. You enjoyed feeding your envy and immature jealousy. Did you enjoy acting on your jealousy of me with lies? Did you think, when you posted all those lies that you were somehow getting revenge on me? Did you think you were putting me in my place?  Did you think you were hurting me? Well, as normal, I saw through your BS for what it was.

Did you get a thrill when you posted all those lies about me? Something tells me that you didn't get the same thrill when you read these truths about yourself. You didn't even consider that when you post lies about someone, they might post truths about you. I literally let it slide for 16 years. 16 YEARS you've been posting lies about me on the internet, and for 16 years you've gotten away with it. For 16 years you reveled in it. You thought it somehow made you superior. You had the world at the tips of your fingers, didn't you? That gave you the feeling of having POWER! POWER!!!!! POWER!!!! But no. No power. I was just ignoring you. I was putting out the fires you started. Because I'm a mature human being, I was hoping it would stop. That you would grow out of it or get bored. Girl! You have way to much time on your hands!!! But instead of finding a job and sticking to it, or volunteering in your community, or going back to school to become more that just functionally illiterate, you prefer to sit on social media, where you have the shield of anonymity, and feed your jealousy by causing trouble for me. 

When I got in contact with you last year you were extremely rude and disrespectful. What you should have done was taken the opportunity to apologize and to make right the havoc you have wreaked. 

Did you bother to tell you daughters that I got a hold of you because I was looking to put your daughters in my will, but you declined on their behalf? How would you have felt if mom did that to you? You would have been pissed 😡, and you would have pitched a huge temper tantrum! A prone Not a Princess, fists pounding, feet kicking, with foam and spittle oozing from your mouth would have been on full display for everyone to see!  

I hope it was worth it. 👍

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Years and years of Not a Princess posting lies about me all over the Internet. I guess I was supposed to just lay down and take it. I didn't deserve to be lied about. 

Not a Princess is a No-Holds-Barred look at the chronic lies, laziness and moronic behavior of one woman.

There is no such thing as YOUR TRUTH, only THE TRUTH. And I tell THE TRUTH.

I am sick and tired of the lies being spread about me so I'm going to tell some truths. 

"Not a Princess" is telling people that I am bipolar, that I'm heavy in a drug addiction, that I am a whore that lets men pay my bills in exchange for "services." None of that is true. And I am sick of the lies, so here comes the truth. 

I am sick and tired of her spreading lies about me. It's time for the truth to be spread. She posted on people's Facebook pages that I was not contacting the family because I was heavy into a drug addiction. And she said that she and our oldest sister are the only ones in the family that never did drugs. Our oldest sister not only did drugs, she was part of the '60s drug culture. She was married to a heavy heroin addict. She told me that he got her to use it, too. Her kids had issues with illicit drug use. I know she smoked pot because she smoked pot when she was in my living room. But all of a sudden, Not a Princess posts on the internet that Dino is a teetotaler and a non-user of drugs, when the fact is she is a heavy user.  Even her kids had problems with illicit drug use and with the law.

My oldest son had no drug or law problems. I would never have allowed that. He went to college right out of high school.

My second son was on that same path with no drug or law problems. It was just he and I in the household at the time. I made sure he was on a good strong path to launch himself after graduation. He, too had no drug or law problems. 

I am done with being "not a princess's" door-mat. It took me 2 years to find all the lies that she posted on families Facebook pages, and for me to ask them to please remove the lies. Not a princess even used the death of a little boy in our family, who was murdered by the mother's boyfriend, as a way to weasel her way into a Facebook page and post the lie that I was heavy into an addiction. So she enjoyed posting lies about me over, and over, and over again. I hope she enjoy my posting the truth as much as she enjoyed posting lies.

It was discovered that she put up an Anc.estry tree where she included ALL living family members personal information. This includes me, my kids and their families, Not a Princess's daughters and their kid ds, husband's, boyfriends, etc. including our oldest sister's personal information, and her children's and grandchildren's personal information. That included names, birthdates, addresses, nicknames, where everyone worked, schools or colleges attended, boyfriends and girlfriend's names, in-law's names. Model of cars they drive. EVERYTHING!!!!  I reported it to Anc.estry.

That, on top of the lies about me made it clear that ignoring her was no longer the path I was willing to take. There are lies about me all over the internet thanks to my sister. I feel the truth is the best disinfectant against lies.

FAFO.

I have a full-time job. I am good at my job, and it has to do with the legal field. I have a mortgage on a home. It's my mortgage and nobody else pays for it. I have a 2026 car that is is fully paid off and is a treasure. A man has never paid a single day of my rent or my mortgage from the day I turned 18. I buy my own food. I buy my own clothing. I buy my own automobiles. I fought my ex-husband for custody of our child, while he had a high price lawyer, I only had myself as a lawyer. And I fought tooth and nail for custody of my child. And in court, in front of the judge, in front of the mediator, in front of CPS, Not only did I win full custody, but I proved that this military officer should not be allowed visitation or any say-so in his life, whatsoever! That's how bad of a man he was. His lawyer going up against me, a layman, with no experience, could not counter all my evidence that this man was an unfit father. And I did it myself, and I did it with nobody backing me. 

So all the lies that "Not a Princess" tells are done. I'm done. This page will stay up until the day I die, and beyond. And if there becomes a problem with this page, I will move it to another server. Because this page is going to be full of truth. Not MY truth, THE truth. I'm not going to be the whipping boy anymore.

Join me in an amazing trip through lies, con jobs, narcissism and manipulation.

“NOT a Princess” contacts people, literally introducing herself as "HRH Princess (her name.”) That's Frickin Embarrassing!!! 😳🤦‍♀️

I am using the pseudonym of "Not a Princess" instead of her name out of total embarrassment. I may start using her real name at some point, probably after I've completed this site.

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Stupidly, I WAS going to leave my home, and my brand new car, to my sister, Not a Princess, or to her children, but when I tried to contact her, she started spreading more lies about me. Yes, I know, it was stupid of me to even consider leaving that kind of money to her, but sometimes I get sentimental. But I got over it...real quick! Lol!!!

I am leaving everything to my dear friend and her husband. They were the ones who were there for me when I suffered a catastrophic injury. They checked on me during the pandemic. They gave me a shoulder to cry on when my cherished cats died and they celebrated milestones with me. They gave my cars jumps when my batteries died. They took me to dinner on my birthdays, and make Christmas special, and most of all... They cared whether I lived or died.

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My Mother

Our mother never should have had children. One of the things I grew up hearing her say to us was she wished she had drowned us all at birth. She also said she wished she had never had children and it chosen to just be an old lady who raised cats. 

My mother was very physically and emotionally abusive. My father would spank us but only when my mom would tell him he needed to do that. For the most part Dad was out to sea, or doing a 6 month tour or in War, or sleeping on the couch. I don't know if he spent his life in a depression or if living with my mother was just so much stress that he disassociated from the rest of the world mentally. Don't get me wrong, he could be a little abusive. I remember one time asking him to help me with some homework that I was having difficulty with and he refused. Instead, he literally hit me upside my head and called me stupid. In hindsight I think that might be because he only had a sixth grade education and maybe was embarrassed to say because he couldn't help. But then again that might be an excuse made by an abused child about an abusive parent. 

In any case my mother was definitely the abuser in the family. She was not happy with the life she had. She always belittled and demeaned my father for not having achieved the rank in the military that she wanted him to have. She was disappointed in we girls in every way possible. She would belittle into demean us every chance she got. 

And as an adult in hindsight, I realized that one of the reasons her abuse got so bad, and I mean physical abuse, at times was because those were the times when my dad was out to sea and my mother was stressing. She didn't handle stress well. The way she handled her stress was to take it out on her children. I remember times where she would be using my dad's belt like it was a whip and just literally chasing me around my bedroom whipping me with the belt. I remember one time when I was so little and she had been beating me so hard that I ran out of the house. I must have only been about 3 years old. I ran out the front door hoping that maybe one of the neighbors would see and would come and help me. But nobody did. And my mom dragged me back in the house and I got it 10 times worse because I had defied her and looked for help.

When I was 14 I went to the school counselor, and I told them that mom would beat us almost on a daily basis. Keeping in mind this was the '70s. I couldn't believe who they sent to investigate. They sent the PE coach, a large man in his forties, to our house to investigate my claims. From the minute he walked in the house I knew that he already had decided I was lying. He sat in this really nice rattan rocking chair my mom had in the living room. My mother gave him coffee and they chit-chatted, and he explained to my mom that he was investigating my claims of child abuse. My mother acted like it was a ridiculous claim and that I was just an out-of-control child. And that's exactly what the PE coach had already decided. He literally looked at me, slapped both hands down on the arms of the chair he was sitting in, and he said, "I don't believe you are being abused because you have nice furniture." That's what he said. I guess the idea was that it if you had a nice home and nice furniture you were not being abused. It was after that that I stopped telling people, never reported it again. I believed from that point on that I wasn't being abused.... the abuse I took was "normal." That every family had a mom who would break a hairbrush on a child's bottom. Who would have a mom who would put them in a shower and turn the cold water on and make them stay in it. A mom who would use a belt like a whip on her child's body. A mom who would the minute the dad was gone out to sea would become evil and look for every reason possible to physically assault her children. 

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